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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

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  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  Filip ... on Jan.6, you participated in the post by logansrun about phone sex. I didn't notice your dad being mentioned once under that topic ... so yes, you were mixed up in a porn site as that is what phone-sex is.

  Your are not sorry about your 'gutter' talk because you are continuing with it.

  You want arguments as to why JWs are right? There are a few people in your house who would love to answer any question you have on that.

  You should get out of here because you don't belong here. This is an adult site ... there may be one for your age group. I'm sure any mod could let you know.

  No one can decide for you what to do. I was your age not long ago and made some bad choices. If I can stop anyone from getting hurt, YOU, then I hope to get you going in the right direction. Don't take your family for granted ... they are the only ones you get in life.
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  311

  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  SixofNine ... you'd actually rather see him here???? Now that's a real future for a 15 year old! Are you all willing to house, feed and school him for the next 5 or 10 years?

  Actually, your comments make my side look good ... thank you.
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  Filip ... yes, I am a JW.

  No, you did not talk like a wuss before. A few times you've used this word ' f*ck ' and no decent person, no matter what age has to resort to 'gutter' talk.

  You are, in fact too young for this site. I checked your profile and you participated in topic about porn. Do you think that looks good for this discussion board, in light of your age?

  You must have missed the post I did on my being in a similar situation as you when I was your age. As it turned out, I grew up and now appreciate my mother's fine efforts. At your age, I felt about the same way you do now. I will not try to make you feel good ... just want you to look at your situation realistically.

  Don't you think your father wants what is best for you? In the heat of the moment, he yelled at you. If that's the worst thing you have to face in life ... more power to you. Get real! These people here have known you for a few days and you are ready to disown your own family because they 'make you feel good'?

  Be glad you aren't my son, if I found out you were doing this behind my back. You think you have troubles now! Did you read Ephesians 6:1,2 &3? Is that message also too unfair for you?

  As I said before ... get out of here!!!!

  AFIN
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  311

  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  Annie ... thank you for the heart felt reply. I have sent you a pm as we are getting off topic ... AFIN.
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  Annie ... believe it or not, I do really see your side of this picture. There are no absolutes when it comes to raising children. Everyone can only do the best they know. As for you regreting the last thirty years ... did some good come out of it?

  I know people who've never been witnesses who regret many things in their past. Again, we can't change the past but hopefully we've learned something from it. Did you know there are no Norman Rockwell lives? If you hadn't been a witness all those years ... who knows ... your life may be worse now. Best to get on with life and try for a better future .. eh?
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  144001 ... you've obviously got bigger problems than can be addressed here. Sorry I got your feathers ruffled.
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  Incense and Peppermints ... what a great post. I agree with it totally!

  Did you know that children who are taught to lovingly obey will have all those attributes?
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  AlmostAthiest: you and I agree on most points. Thank you for your candor.

  15 year olds, as far as I am concerned are asked in the door-to-door if they are allowed to choose their own reading material.

  While filip is old enough to decide on his own spiritual beliefs, he must obey his parents untill he can physically support himself.
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  144001: show me your documented research please.

  I'm sorry your look back on your chilhood so badly. Mine was similar and my memories are terrific.

  You know absolutely nothing about me to tell me I have a mental weakness. While I may think that about you, it would be very bad manners to tell you.
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  Urgent! Need help - I told my parents.

  by filip in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we have just gotten home from sunday-meeting, when my mom ask me if i believe in god and so on.

  so i tell her, cause you adviced me to be honest.

  and despite all my fears, she took it very calm, and then told my dad whos also taking it calm, and it doesnt seem like theyre hating me now or want to throw me out of the house.. the thing is.

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  SixofNine ... would you recommend the same thing if his parents were Jewish or Muslim? Or is your attitude 'slanted' by your past? Believe me ... there are lots worse parents out there. In this enlightened age of 'having all the answers' without the scriptures gets people a lot further ... yeah right!